The Queen's Speech at a Reception Honoring Supporters of Sexual Assault Survivors and Relaunching the Washbags Project

Welcome, everyone, to Buckingham Palace, where we have gathered to acknowledge and express gratitude to those who offer support to survivors of sexual violence.

Each of you holds a significant narrative: whether you are involved in this cause domestically or internationally; whether you operate in a shelter, a Sexual Assault Referral Centre, a charitable organization, Parliament, or, most importantly, you are a survivor.

Your stories and lived experiences are crucial instruments as we strive for change: to create a world where individuals, regardless of their identity or location, do not have to live in fear of being victimized.

It is a common sentiment among survivors that speaking out about their experiences is essential for coping with the aftermath.

By exchanging our stories today, we can fortify our coalition against all forms of sexual abuse.

Today, we are also here to announce the relaunch of the washbags initiative, with immense gratitude to Boots and In Kind Direct, whose support made it possible.

The concept of the washbags originated in 2012, when I began to comprehend the devastating impact of sexual violence and its consequences on survivors.

It is unnecessary to reiterate that each year in England and Wales alone, almost 800,000 women and 275,000 men face attempted or actual sexual assault – although the actual numbers are likely much higher.

The objective of the washbags was to offer some solace to individuals finding themselves in such distressing circumstances.

In 2017, with the support of many present here, I was thrilled to launch the initiative at Boots' headquarters in Nottingham.

Earlier, I emphasized the importance of listening to survivors.

Throughout the years, I have had the honor of meeting individuals and receiving letters from many who have unfortunately experienced sexual assault.

Some have received a washbag at SARCs after undergoing the forensic examination.

I hold a letter from one such person and have received gracious permission to share a segment from it.

This individual wrote to me about her courageous daughter, whom I will refer to as Jane.

Two years ago, Jane, accompanied by her mother and sister, went to a SARC immediately after being assaulted for a comprehensive forensic examination.

Her mother described this as “a dreadful, yet necessary, experience” as they were preparing to leave, feeling despondent.

Jane's personal contact then arrived with a bag of toiletries and relaxation items, which brightened their spirits and altered the somber mood.

It was a simple and unexpected gesture that reminded them of the kindness of strangers during a dark period.

Naturally, this letter deeply touched me.

The phrase “the kindness of strangers during a dark period” epitomizes the essence of all of your actions: extending a hand of solidarity to those who have been dehumanized in the cruelest manner; providing solace to the traumatized; and instilling hope for recovery, as demonstrated by Jane's story.

To each of you, I wish to convey my heartfelt gratitude.

Thank you for sharing your stories, demonstrating kindness, refusing to remain anonymous to those enduring the bleakest of times, and, above all, for standing up and dedicating yourselves to eradicating these atrocious crimes – permanently.

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